does my husband golf too much??
Posted in Uncategorized by andre
March 31st, 2008
kthegirl asked:
My husband golfs, spends money on golf stuff, goes golfing all day, and then golfs some more.. is it me? what did I do to loose to his golf obsession? we have been married for 13 years, andhave 2 cool kids,,, I hate being without him on the weekend when he is golfing, I get mad and spend mad money, I know that is bad, what should I do, the weekend is almost here.
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My husband golfs, spends money on golf stuff, goes golfing all day, and then golfs some more.. is it me? what did I do to loose to his golf obsession? we have been married for 13 years, andhave 2 cool kids,,, I hate being without him on the weekend when he is golfing, I get mad and spend mad money, I know that is bad, what should I do, the weekend is almost here.
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April 3rd, 2008 at 2:53 pm
If you are asking here, then yes!
Tell him point blank that you miss the time you need to spend together on the weekends because he would rather play golf than to consider doing just that.
Tell him you understand the hobby part of it but that you see the need for the marriage to be a part of his hobby also.
Tell him that you are tired of spending “mad money” on needless things just because you are bored and shop because he chooses to golf all the time.
You have a mouth and a say in this we don’t.
April 6th, 2008 at 11:30 am
No, its his hobby, why try to bring the guy down
Why don’t you get a hobby
April 9th, 2008 at 9:22 pm
If it’s bothering you then I guess he does and you need to sit down and discuss it.
( I avoided any “golf BALLS jokes FYI…. )
April 10th, 2008 at 11:39 pm
Does he golf every weekend ? yes ?, that is not good, needs to spend time with you & family, every other weekend ? yes ? that is not too bad, better than him going to Sammy’s go-go & watching women on a pole !! Buy a pontoon boat Talk to him about it, tell him you would like more time wiith him, buy yourself a set of clubs & go with him every time !!
April 12th, 2008 at 9:05 am
i thought you were going to see chili peppers
when you start doing this because he did that, things will only get worse
tell him how you feel, what you want and negotiate a middle ground
be happy he has something healthy to do, why don’t you golf with him? and the kids too
April 15th, 2008 at 12:07 pm
He is probably getting tired of the ‘family thing’ if all he does is sit at the house with you on the weekends and watch tv, then he is getting bored. My husband and I are going through the same thing. Except he likes to play volleyball. He says he is tired of sitting at the house and doing nothing. Just tell him that you want to go swimming or go on a picnic or go to the park, or lake or something. Tell him that you know he is getting bored at the house. but you would like to spend time with “Our family” and if he doesn’t want to sit around the house, tell him that you want to do stuff together.
April 18th, 2008 at 11:25 pm
I bet he doesn’t golf more than once a week….chill. Don’t be a hater!
April 21st, 2008 at 9:48 pm
You should learn to play golf. That way you can spend more time together. I bought my wife a set of clubs and she loves to play and to watch me play.
You may strengthen your relationship by showing you care about his passion.
Let him know about this website.